Lilith Oil with Crystals

The lilith oil can be used for many different energies and situations in your life depending on how you the user intends to work with the Lilith oil.

Lilith oil can be used for alluring things to you in a similar way to the attraction oil but in a more dominating sense/energy. But she can also bring in energies for you of confidence, sensuality, boundary setting with more ease as well using your inner power in a stronger way within your reality.

You can use the lilith oil in many different rituals, which is on another ‘how to’ post so definitely check that out! Within this post we are going to touch base on how you can use the Lilith oil with certain crystals in your everyday life to harness your own personal power, confidence and basically get what you desire/want in life.

Crystals I would recommend using with lilith are;

• Garnet - Garnet is known as the crystal of activating passion and success. It can help remove any emotional blocks getting in the way of you being your best self as well as clearing old patterns so that you can invite your best version to come forward.

• Rose Quartz - Widely known as the lovers stone, for self love and love in general. But it is also the crystal for heightening your vibration by surrounding you with loving energy and can be great for when you need a little pick me up, struggle with emotional and body confidence as well as those down days that you struggle to feel your best self.

• Carnelian - This crystal got popular because of tik tok however carnelian is not a ‘love stone’ but it can help make you more magnetic and sexy which makes your overall energy more alluring and passionate. When paired with other energies that harness that energy you’ll find you feel like one. hot chilli!!! Carnelian is great for passion in relationships but it is also amazing for finding your passion in life, your creative energy and also is a stone of motivation.

• Black Obsidian - Quickly becoming one of my personal favourites to work with, black obsidian is great for protection and warding off negative energies. However!! It is also amazing for creating boundaries for you and helps support you when applying and working through shadow work in your life. I find Black obsidian my go-to even over black tourmaline these days.

• Malachite- Known as the crystal of change & transformation, it helps push and navigate you to be the best version of yourself possible while opening your heart to help you lean towards what your heart wants to do in life/with life.

How to use crystals with the lilith oil;

• Place lilith oil on your hip and sacral area as well as lower spine. Place a carnelian tumble in your pocket or wear carnelian jewellery (bracelet, necklace or ring). These energies together will push out an energy from your auric field of passion and creative energy. You may notice by doing this you will become more motivated to get creative but you may also notice your libido increasing. You could say an affirmation such as; I am the most sexy, sensual and creative self right now’

• Place lilith oil on your heart chakra and arch of your foot, use rose quartz tumble or jewellery (bracelet, ring or necklace) and say the affirmation ‘ I love myself for who I am, who I was and who I will be’. This little everyday ritual helps to cultivate self love and more confidence in your overall image whilst shifting your auric field to be in a higher vibration. You can also do this little ritual at home on a lower day when you need a little pick me up, but instead lay down after you’ve applied the lilith oil to those areas and place a rose quartz crystal on your heart chakra and put on a meditation for self love or heart chakra sound healing.

• Place lilith oil on your neck and chest and arms, say out loud or within your mind ‘ I am the most sexy and sensual version of myself, therefore I attract everything I desire with ease and flow’ you can place a garnet tumble in your pocket when doing this little ritual. This ritual will help you become more dominant in your life and take charge of your reality, it will ooze sexyness and dark feminine energy. Be ready to seriously feel powerful af. Remember your sexual and sensual self is powerful and you are entitled to feel like the sexiest version of yourself possible!

• Place lilith oil on arms, hands, behind the neck and around the throat chakra and on your solar plexus chakra aka tummy area. Place a black obsidian tumble into your right side pocket and state the affirmation ‘ I set and speak boundaries with conviction, knowing it is an act of self love and true devotion to my own energy and self.’ This ritual will help you set boundaries if you struggle to do this and will assist you in feeling more confident to truly express yourself and your needs with more ease too.

• Take a red candle, dress in love herb mix then apply a few drops of the lilith oil on the top. Around the crystal place rose quartz crystals and clear quartz crystals. As many or as little as you want! Write down on a piece of paper/s some loving affirmations for yourself or your relationship then place a drop of lilith oil on the top and burn this piece of paper/s into a fire safe bowl. After doing this place lilith oil on your hands and say ‘ & so it is’. This ritual is great for self love or bringing more confidence into your relationship or the relationship you have with yourself.

• Place a few drops of lilith oil into your bath with epsom salts (or the bath salts from Luna Gems if you have them) pop some rose quartz tumbles into your bath. Whilst setting these intentions out loud aka enchanting your bath water. ‘ As I take this bath I am calling in self confidence, self love and personal power, knowing I am the creator of my own reality and I can achieve and obtain everything I ever desire’. For extra energy light red or pink candles near or around your bath.

• As you are working on your shadow work, place a black obsidian tumble near you and apply lilith oil to your inner palms, third eye and soles of your feet. This will help support you during your shadow work.

• Wear malachite in a necklace, bracelet or ring, or place a malachite tumble in your pocket. Place a few drops of lilith oil on your heart chakra, chest and the ends of your hair. Set the intentions that you are opening your heart to everything that is meant for you and open to transformation towards your highest self. Affirmations such as; ‘I am open to transformation and change for the highest good of myself and my spirit’. Or you can say ‘ I am opening my heart to my highest self and step into that version of me easily’.

These are some ways you can use the lilith oil with crystals or lilith oil on its own, however I really love to incorporate crystals and oils together within my practices as I find they really compliment each other!

Don’t be afraid to get creative as use The Lilith Oil as many ways as you feel called too!

-H x